Article: Renewed faith in marriage
by Xanadu, Times Online special correspondent about town
I’m going to comment the article titled Renewed faith in marriage. In this article, the writer (or the journalist) shows us how a lot of people are actually not happy with their married indeed. Obviously the writer is single (well, In fact I suppose that, of course, because she tell that her family sees her like a black sheep....) It seems like, if you want to have a normally life you must be married.... But the most curious is that the writer thinks that, nowadays, there are an important loss of faith in marriage. In her family she always saw “happy marriages and cheerful healthy offspring” and she talks us about how their friends are not very satisfied with their family and their obligations.
For example, she explains to us a funny and interesting anecdote: one day she was invited for a dinner with a couple. When she arrived at their house, it was funny discoverd that she couldn’t find any trace of a tipycal family life with children and they really had two! This family was, apparently, “perfect”. The wife was young (“not wrinkles”), pleasant and, of course, she was a good cook. The house was clean and all organized, it was such a perfect home and they seem be ideally suited. And the writer asked herself: where were the signs of children? She tries to find “something” but nothing appear... and suddenly she discovered only one clue: a tiny grey tweed winter coat on a hall doorway!! Finally she ends the article thinking about the necessity of repaired the faith in the marriage, I think she believe in it though...
I was gathering my thoughts about this topic and, to my mind, people must try to be happy and it doesn’t matter if you are or not married.... The most important thing it’s, in the end, to be next to the appropiate person. However, this is the most difficult objective: to find your soulmate. In addiction, nowadays it’s understood that to be married it’s not a priority (obviously not for everybody and not for me...) Basically I think is better to be happy: firtsly with yourself, and secondly, you must try to find your own balance, although you are single or married, the last objective it’s to be with suitable people arround you.... Are you sure that you are with the correct people?
See you!
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,18392-2467583,00.html
by Xanadu, Times Online special correspondent about town
I’m going to comment the article titled Renewed faith in marriage. In this article, the writer (or the journalist) shows us how a lot of people are actually not happy with their married indeed. Obviously the writer is single (well, In fact I suppose that, of course, because she tell that her family sees her like a black sheep....) It seems like, if you want to have a normally life you must be married.... But the most curious is that the writer thinks that, nowadays, there are an important loss of faith in marriage. In her family she always saw “happy marriages and cheerful healthy offspring” and she talks us about how their friends are not very satisfied with their family and their obligations.
For example, she explains to us a funny and interesting anecdote: one day she was invited for a dinner with a couple. When she arrived at their house, it was funny discoverd that she couldn’t find any trace of a tipycal family life with children and they really had two! This family was, apparently, “perfect”. The wife was young (“not wrinkles”), pleasant and, of course, she was a good cook. The house was clean and all organized, it was such a perfect home and they seem be ideally suited. And the writer asked herself: where were the signs of children? She tries to find “something” but nothing appear... and suddenly she discovered only one clue: a tiny grey tweed winter coat on a hall doorway!! Finally she ends the article thinking about the necessity of repaired the faith in the marriage, I think she believe in it though...
I was gathering my thoughts about this topic and, to my mind, people must try to be happy and it doesn’t matter if you are or not married.... The most important thing it’s, in the end, to be next to the appropiate person. However, this is the most difficult objective: to find your soulmate. In addiction, nowadays it’s understood that to be married it’s not a priority (obviously not for everybody and not for me...) Basically I think is better to be happy: firtsly with yourself, and secondly, you must try to find your own balance, although you are single or married, the last objective it’s to be with suitable people arround you.... Are you sure that you are with the correct people?
See you!
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,18392-2467583,00.html
posted by Bluephie at 1:19 AM
1 Comments:
I completely agree with you Blue. Happiness is for me, too, the most important thing in our lives and it doesn´t depend on your marital status. I know many couples who are not happy, their lives are grey. But at the same time I know many other people who are single and have a grey life. My grandma usually says “If we live only three days, let´s try to be happy at less two of them”. Anyway, I also think that we must have some unhappy moments in our lifes. Why?. Because then we enjoy better happy moments. That’s like in food. If you eat everyday seafood, finally you will not appreciate it.
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